For each item, you need to provide two answers:
Experience: Have you had real time experience with the activity? Indicate YES or NO next to each item. Write N/A if it does not apply to your gender.
Willingness: Are you willing/open to try an activity?For each item, indicate the degree to which you are willing to try that particular activity by rating it on a scale of NO or 0-5 (see rating scale below). If you write "no", it means you will not do that item under any circumstance (a hard limit). There is nothing wrong with indicating 'no' on an item. However, if you write 'no' next to every item, you should probably find another interest to pursue.... like knitting or basket weaving. *grin*
If you do not understand what an activity is, mark that item with a "?".
Mark with an asterisk (*) those items which you are willing to do only with your current sex partner(s), but not with casual play partners
Rating Scale:
0 Utterly no desire to do that activity and don’t like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and ordinarily would object to doing it, but you would permit the Dominant to do it if they really wanted it (sometimes called a soft limit)
1 Don’t want to do or like to do this activity, but wouldn’t object it if was asked of you
2 Willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for you
3 Usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular/occasional basis
4 You like doing this activity and would like to experience it on a regular basis
5 Is a wild turn-on for you and you would like it as often as possible
Note any additional information or nuances which might be important for your Dom to know in the comments section.There is intentionally some overlap between categories. Unless otherwise stated, the sub is the recipient/target of the activity
Abrasion No No
Age Play No No
Anal Sex No No
Anal Plugs (small) Yes 2 *
Anal Plugs (large) No No
Anal Plug (public under clothes) No No
Animal Roles No No
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders) No 3
Aromas No 3
Asphyxiation ?
Auctioned for charity No No
Ball Stretching N/A
Bathroom use control No No
Beastiality No No
Beating (soft) Yes 5
Beating (medium) Yes 4
Beating (hard) No 3
Blindfolding Yes 5
Being Serviced (sexual) Yes 5
Being bitten Yes 5
Breast/chest bondage No 2
Breath control Yes 4 *
Branding No No
Boot Worship ?
Bondage (light) Yes 5
Bondage (heavy) No 3
Bondage (multi-day) No 3
Bondage (public under clothing) No 2
Breast whipping No 3
Brown showers (scat) No No
Cages (locked inside) No 2
Caning No No
Castration fantasy N/A
Catheterization No No
Cattle prod (electrical toy) No 1
Cells/Closets (locked inside of) No 2
Chains No 3
Chamber pot use No No
Chastity belts No No
Chauffeuring No 3 Need a drivers license first
Choking No No
Chores (domestic service) Yes 4 *
Clothespins Yes 3 *
Cock rings/straps N/A
Cock worship Yes 3 *
Collars (worn in private) Yes 5
Collars (worn in public) Yes 5
Competitions (with other subs) Yes 4 *Its fun when its for pleasing Master
Corsets (wearing casually) Yes 5
Corsets (trained waist reduction) No 3* Working towards
Cuffs (leather) Yes 5
Cuffs (metal) No 3
Cutting No No Have clinical depression
Diapers (wearing) No No
Diapers (wetting) No No
Diapers (soiling) No No
Dilation No No
Dildos Yes 4* Only with pet or when Master isn’t avalible
Double Penetration Yes 3 *
Electricity No 0 *
Enemas (for cleansing) No 1
Enemas ( retention/punishment) No No
Enforced chastity No 0
Erotic Dance (for audience) Yes 5 *
Examinations (physical) No 3
Exercise (forced/required) Yes 4 *for best interest in my health
Exhibitionism (friends) No No
Exhibitionism (strangers) No No
Eye contact restrictions Yes 4 *got to work on with high protocol
Face Slapping No No
Fantasy Abandonment No No
Fantasy rape No No
Fantasy gang rape No No
Fear (being scared) No No
Fisting (anal) No No
Fisting (vaginal) No No
Flame play No No
Following orders Yes 4
Foot worship ?
Forced bedwetting No No
Forced dressing No 3 *
Forced eating No 3 *
Forced heterosexuality No No
Forced masturbation Yes 3 *
Forced nudity (private) Yes 4 *
Forced nudity (around others) No 2
Forced Servitude Yes 3 *
Forced smoking No No
Full head hoods Yes 4 *
Gags (cloth) Yes 3
Gags (inflatable) No 2
Gags (phallic) No 2
Gags (rubber) No 3
Gags (tape) No No
Gas masks No No
Gates of Hell (male) N/A
Genital sex Yes 5
Given away to another Dom (temp) No No
Given away to another Dom (perm) No No
Golden Showers No No
Gun play No No
Hair brush spankings Yes 0
Hair pulling Yes 4
Hand Jobs (giving) Yes 4
Hand Jobs (receiving) Yes 5
Harems (serving w/other subs) Yes 4 *
Harnessing (leather) No 3
Harnessing (rope) Yes 3
Having food chosen for you No 3
Having clothing chosen for you No 3
Head (give fellatio/cunnilingus) Yes 4 *Both but cunnilingus rarely
Head (rcv fellatio/cunnilingus) yes 5
High Heel Wearing No 2
High Heel Worship No No
Homage with tongue (non-sexual) No No
Hoods Yes 4
Hot oils (on genitals) No 2
Hot waxing No 1
Housework (doing) Yes 3
Human puppy dog No No
Humiliation (private) No No
Humiliation (public) No No
Hypnotism No 2
Ice cubes Yes No
Immobilization No 3
Infantilism No No
Initiation rites No No
Injections No No
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage Yes 5
Interrogations No 0 *
Kidnapping No No
Kneeling Yes 5 *
Knife play No No Have Clinical depression
Leather Clothing No 2
Leather restraints Yes 3
Lectures for misbehavior Yes 3 *
Licking (non-sexual) No No
Lingerie (wearing) Yes 5 *
Manacles and Irons No 1
Manicures (giving) Yes 4 *hand Massage for Master after pet gives manicure
Massage (giving) Yes 3
Massage (receiving) Yes 5
Medical scenes No No
Modeling for erotic photos Yes 5 *
Mouth bits Yes 4
Mummification No 1
Name change (for scene) Yes 3
Nipple clamps Yes 2 *
Nipple rings (piercing) No No
Nipple weights No No
Oral/anal play (rimming) No No
Over the knee spanking No 3
Orgasm denial Yes 3 *
Orgasm control Yes 5 *
Outdoor scenes No 0
Pain (severe) Yes 2 *have to watch for needing to call mercy
Pain (mild) Yes 3 *
Persona training (in scene) ?
Personal modification (rl) No 3
Phone sex (serving Dom) Yes 2 Would rather have him here
Phone sex (serving Dom’s friends) No No
Phone sex (commercial provider) No No
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce) No No
Piercing (permanent) Yes 4 Belly button and ears when I wear ear rings
Plastic surgery No No
Prison scenes No No
Prostitution (public pretense) No No
Prostitution (actual) No No
Pony slave No No
Public exposure No No
Punishment scene Yes 3 *for now watch for needs of Mercy call
Pussy/cock whipping Yes 4
Pussy worship No No
Riding crops No No
Riding the "horse" (crotch tort) No No
Rituals Yes 5 *collaring and handfasting
Religious scenes No No
Restrictive rules on behavior Yes 3 * protocols
Rubber/latex clothing No No
Rope body harness Yes 3
Saran wrap No 3
Scarification No No
Scratching - getting Yes 4 * gotta watch pets nails being to sharp
Scratching - giving Yes 5 *gotta watch having nails too sharp pet has drawn blood on Master
Sensory deprivation No 1
Serving Yes 3
Serving as art No No
Serving as ashtray No No
Serving as furniture No No
Serving as a maid Yes 3
Serving as a toilet (urine) No No
Serving as a toilet (feces) No No
Serving as waitress/waiter Yes 3
Serving orally (sexual) Yes 5
Serving other Doms (supervised) No No
Serving other Doms (unsupervised) No No
Sexual deprivation (short term) Yes 3
Sexual deprivation (long term) Yes 0
Shaving (body hair) Yes 3
Shaving (head hair) No No
Skinny dipping Yes 5 *
Sleep deprivation No 3
Sleep sacks No 2
Slutty clothing (private) Yes 5
Slutty clothing (public) No 4 *
Spandex clothing No 3
Spanking Yes 4 Not good for punishment
Speech restrictions (when/what) Yes 4 High Protocol
Speculums (anal) No No
Speculums (vaginal) No No
Spitting No No
Spreader bars No 3
Standing in corner No 3
Stocks No 1
Straight jackets No 3
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on) No No
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by) No 2
Strap-on-dildos (wearing) No 3
Strapping (full body beating) ?
Suspension (upright) No 2
Suspension (inverted) No 2
Supplying new partners for Dom No No
Swallowing feces No No
Swallowing semen Yes 5
Swallowing urine No No
Swapping (with one other couple) No No
Swinging (multiple couples) No No
Tampon training (in ass) No No
Tattooing Yes 3 Once pet gets her license and such
Teasing Yes 5
TENS unit (electrical toy) No 2
Thumb cuffs (metal) No 3
Tickling No 1 *
Triple Penetration No 1 *anal plug for third pen. only
Urethral Sounds (metal rods) No No
Uniforms No 5
Including others Yes 3 *
Vaginal dildo Yes 4
Verbal humiliation No No
Vibrator on genitals Yes 5
Violet wand (electrical toy) No 2
Voyeurism (watching others) No No
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others) No 4 *
Video (watching others) No No Maybe occasional porn for ideas :D
Video (recordings of you) No No Maybe homemade porn
Water torture No No
Waxing (hair removal) No No
Wearing symbolic jewelry Yes 5 Collared and married
Weight gain (forced) No No
Weight loss (forced) Yes 3 * in best interest of my health
Whipping No 1
Wooden paddles No 3
Wrestling No No
